So it now appears that Tiger Woods cheated on his wife, Elin Nordegren, with at least a half-dozen women. The fact that anyone is surprised by this amazes me. The man had everything going for him in life, but everything going against him when it came to marital fidelity: One of the world's richest men, handsome, athletic, literally at the top of his profession et al. This is a perfect recipe for thousands of attractive, young women to literally throw themselves at one's feet, in the hopes of getting close to a man with that combination of assets. As a woman, Ms. Nordegren probably has no idea what kind of effect that can have on the most loyal of spouses. But give in to his lower instincts Tiger did. It seems like your typical athlete-adoring females-jilted wife story, right?
Wrong. According to an NBC/MSNBC article, there are some blacks who are upset about the race of woman with whom Tiger chose to cheat! I thought it was a joke, too. But they're serious. Apparently, there are a fair number of blacks who are resentful of the fact Tiger married a white, Swedish woman, and not "one of his own." What is remarkable is the fact that Tiger Woods is as close as one can come to being a "post-racial" or "non-racial" person. He has described himself as "Cablinasian" - a mixture of Caucasian, black, Indian, and Asian. He does not consider himself as an ambassador of golf for blacks, because he does not consider himself one! But they do consider him one. And that is why they are upset that he chose to cheat outside of his race, as they see it. As one black woman, Ebonie Johnson Cooper, put it, "...we still see him as a black man with a white woman, and it makes a difference. There's just this preservation thing we have among one another. We like to see each other with each other."
Three questions for those blacks who are upset that Tiger cheated with white women:
- How does it feel going around every day feeling that you are a victim, no matter how good America has been, overall, to your people? I cannot imagine very well.
- Why is it not OK for whites to desire to marry only intraracially (can you imagine the reaction if a public figure advocated only intraracial marriage among whites?) but it is OK for blacks to publicly express their desire that fellow blacks marry only other blacks? Is that not anti-white-/Latino-/Asian racism?
- What if it were your daughter or sister with whom Tiger cheated? Would this make you satisfied, knowing that Tiger cheated "within the family"?
I think these are important questions to ask. Those blacks who express frustration at the fact Tiger only cheated on his wife with white women make themselves look extremely foolish. They should spend more time appreciating all of the opportunities America has afforded them and their children.
And be grateful it was not your daughter/sister on the news with Tiger.
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